Throwing objects is a natural part of play and an early lesson in cause and effect. We get it, you don’t want to teach your baby to start hurling heavy objects all over your home, but we aren’t talking about a perfect underhand pitch or a coordinated overhand throw. These first throws are more of a fling.
Creating safe ways to practice helps build skills that your baby is naturally excited to explore.
Somewhere between 9 and 12 months, your baby may accidentally throw an object. They’ll be shaking their hands, trying to release the ball from their grip, and will realize the ball has been flung to a distance, bouncing and rolling.
Sometime around 13 to 16 months, your toddler may start to throw a ball underhand while sitting, with their arm down at the side, palm up.
By around 18 months, your toddler will likely throw a ball forward while in a supported standing position. Supported means standing while hanging onto a table with one hand, or with you holding onto their waist or hips.
Give your toddler lots of opportunities to throw appropriate objects at appropriate times.
Here are some ideas to help support your toddler’s throwing:
Get the ball rolling
Start by rolling the large soft ball to your toddler and see if they can roll the ball back to you.
When you’re ready to practice throwing, start by showing them how you can throw one of the soft balls towards a basket. Throwing directly to your toddler can scare them 🥺
Guide their throws
First, model throwing for your toddler, and then let them try. Put your hand over theirs and guide them through the motion. Then let them release the ball on their own.
Sit to throw
They may need to sit while learning to throw, since standing and throwing require extra balance. Cheer on their efforts!
Crinkling up paper and throwing it into a box or the recycling bin is fun too, and can be done anywhere.
Control and direction
At first, they will not have control over the direction of their throw, but they will eventually learn how to throw the ball forward.
If your toddler starts to throw things at you too hard, or throwing things at the wrong time, help them understand that this kind of throwing is not safe. You might say “Do you want to practice throwing? Do you want to play catch right now? Let’s find a softer ball. Throwing things when people aren’t ready can hurt them.”